How To Attract What You Want

The first step to attract what you want and working with the Law Of Attraction is to change or shift your energy.  Everything in this world is made up of energy including us.

Other people pick up on your energy. If it’s positive you’ll attract positive people into your life. If you have negative energy, you’ll always attract negative people and negative situations into your life.

If you find that you are getting exactly what you don’t want or if you find that you are not getting what you want then there’s a very good chance that you’re simply sending out the wrong energy.  In the end you’ll attract what corresponds to your energy. Negative energy attracts negative situations.

Positive energy attracts positive situations. It’s really that simple.  So if you’re not getting what you want – you’re likely sending out the wrong energy. Change your energy – and you’ll likely start getting what you want.

Just what is your energy? Your energy is based on your thoughts and beliefs. Your subconscious mind picks up on your thoughts and beliefs and goes out and creates situations that correspond to your thoughts and beliefs.  Other people pick up your energy on a subconscious level. They’re not consciously aware of your energy but they just develop a feeling about you based on your energy.  If you have negative energy you’ll attract negative people and negative situations.  At the same time you’ll repel positive people and positive situations. This is not a good combination if you want to create a positive and successful life.

This is how the Law Of Attraction works – it’s tied to the beliefs that your subconscious simply follows – attracting the people, situations and opportunities that mirror your beliefs.  If you constantly think of the worst, if you find that you are negative, if you don’t believe that you can ever achieve anything, if you don’t believe that anybody can be good, if you constantly complain, if you always see the worst in situations, if you regularly put others down, if you’re just a negative person you will develop negative energy and in the end you’ll only attract more negative situations into your life.

In the end – your negative energy makes your life miserable and it becomes to achieve your goals and create the changes that you want. At the same time you repel positive people and positive situations.  So by being negative or by developing negative energy things will continue to get worse. Being negative is really a no win situation and you should do everything that you can to stop being negative and eliminate any negative energy that you have.  So what do you do?  How do you turn things around?

Change the way you see things and begin eliminating the negative thoughts and negative beliefs. This will help change your energy so that you begin attracting what you want. This means that you focus on positive situations, understand that things will work out, look for solutions instead of complaining, be more understanding instead of getting angry, try to look at things from a different perspective, embrace changes and look for opportunities instead of focusing on the problems and no longer believing that the worst will happen.

As you continually change the way you think and see things you’ll begin to naturally attract more positive situations into your life. You may have heard it before: you are what you attract. And if you are not getting what you want out of life it’s time to change the way you think and act, then only will you be able to change your energy and attract better, positive situations into your life while creating and attracting what you want.

During the day observe how you respond to situations, see how you react to things you don’t like, or just to situations in general.  Pay attention to the comments you make to friends, colleagues and relatives.  Are they positive or negative?  Do you always point out the negative? Do you complain or think of the worst? If something goes wrong do you get angry, blame somebody, or have a series of negative thoughts?  Or do you focus on a solution, accept responsibility and create the changes that you want?

If you find that you have a negative reaction then you’re only creating more negative energy and attracting more negative situations. Start changing how you think. Create positive thoughts and positive beliefs. Focus on finding solutions and you’ll begin attracting more positive situations into your life.

Get started today – visit: Take Positive Action Besides just changing your thoughts and beliefs you also need to change your actions and how you respond to situations. Even the most subtle negative behavior and negative responses can create negative situations in your life.  This happens because they add up and after a while you habitually have negative responses and respond in a negative way to situations.  Before you know it you’re taking negative actions and getting negative results. And that’s not what you want.

Instead, take steps to be nice and you’ll attract nice or positive situations.  For example: If you find out that a colleague gets a promotion and you get upset, angry, or resentful then you’re really creating more negative energy and will continue to attract situations that will keep making you angry.  What you’re really saying is that you don’t like promotions; at least that’s the energy that you’re sending out. Now remember on a subconscious level other people will pick up on your energy including your bosses.  If they feel that you don’t like promotions and don’t have a positive attitude toward promotions why would they give you one?  But if you were to wish the person who got the promotion luck and support them then you would attract something similar.  You would be creating positive energy that would attract more positive situations.

If you come across somebody who is wealthy and you have a negative reaction others will pick up on this. They will be less likely to help you become wealthy because you’re sending out the message that you don’t like wealth or wealthy people so why should they help you? Now if you were to embrace somebody who was wealthy, applaud them for their success, and praise them for their accomplishment then you will create positive energy and in the end they will pick up on the energy that says you think having wealth is a good thing and others would be more willing to help you create wealth.  You cannot attract that which you are not. You only attract what you are.  If you are not kind, thoughtful, understanding, supportive and encouraging you simply won’t attract great people with those qualities into your life.

Make it a daily habit to look for the positive qualities in people that you interact with.  If you have a boss that you feel is difficult then look for and focus on his or her positive qualities. By doing this you’ll begin to change the energy between the two of you and you might find that after a while things begin to improve.  Begin changing the way you see things.  Start being the kind of person you want others to be. Take time to be nice and look for positive situations in people and in all situations.  Your subconscious mind will then begin to attract all that you want in life and more.  There is one catch to all this: you have to practice this with all your heart.  That means you have to be serious about it and you have to intend your goodwill and kindness. Meditate on being positive, attracting positive people and situations into your life. You can’t just be nicer, and more positive just to attract better situations in life.

If you practice what I just suggested and don’t have serious intentions you’ll only attract people who are the same they’ll end up manipulating you and taking advantage of you in the same way.  This is not something to take lightly.  Studies have shown that those who are more positive, kinder and more considerate stand a better chance of achieving their goals and are more likely to live fulfilling lives.  Stop being negative.  Take positive actions.  Search for solutions.  Look at things differently.  Search for the good in people that you interact with.  Take time to be complimentary and positive.  When you do all of the above you get your subconscious mind working for you. You change your energy level and your subconscious begins to create more positive situations. Stay negative and you get negative situations.

It’s time for a new approach and you will begin to see dramatic improvements if you follow the simple steps I just outlined. If you want even more powerful results then start working with Creating Power today. You can apply these techniques for any and every area of your life.  If you want to attract the right person think of the qualities that person would have and start displaying similar qualities. Be the kind of person you want in your life.  Start shifting your energy and you will begin attracting what you want and you’ll eliminate all those negative situations in your life.

Kandi Phillips

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